In chaos, there's an order

it's quite interesting that people in this house can find their stuff without any problem but i couldn't, although i'm the only one who doesn't throw my stuff around.

Keeping quiet is one way to deal with the situation people are yelling with reasons or not, fighting is another. Sometimes, ignorance is so powerful.

it's fast to say than it is to do. Good plan doesn't make sense until taking action. Part of the plan for the break has been given up for being around the people. you win some, you lose some.