Sunday, January 22, 2006

procrastination

The reason to cause the procrastination is perfectionism, fear and disorganization.

Perfectionism is easy to understand. Believing that we must do something perfectly is a recipe for stress, and we'll associate that stress with the task and thus condition ourself to avoid it. We then end up putting the task off to the last possible minute. But if we have no specific deadline for a task, perfectionism can cause us to delay indefinitely.

Fear of failing. if we are self-critical and feel inferior, we will avoid doing many things, especially competitive activities. Not trying is a form of failure but not as painful as actually trying and failing.

Disorganization is another reason to cause the procrastination. We might have a huge goal in our mind, but forgot to break down to the doable part. If we have to handle the multiple tasks at the same time, it's definitely getting worse.

There're lots of recommendation to help stop the procrastionation. But I found one by John Perry might work well. Actually he's quite funny guy. He pointed out "that procrastinating does not mean doing absolutely nothing, they do marginally useful things." Just like now I'm writing my blog which is marginally useful thing comparing to my dissertation. :) In his structured procrastination strategy
Structured procrastination means shaping the structure of the tasks one has to do in a way that exploits this fact. The list of tasks one has in mind will be ordered by importance. Tasks that seem most urgent and important are on top. But there are also worthwhile tasks to perform lower down on the list. Doing these tasks becomes a way of not doing the things higher up on the list. With this sort of appropriate task structure, the procrastinator becomes a useful citizen. Indeed, the procrastinator can even acquire, as I have, a reputation for getting a lot done.
So for me, right now, I should change my dissertation from the top 1 to the top3 or lower that I can avoid to do my top1 task by working on it, and finally get it done. What's a marvellous idea!

I'm Ms. Procrastinator.

Thursday, January 12, 2006

Boring

Debra got some fear that she was a boring wife for Ray at home, in order to cheer him up, she proposed a weekend vacation just for both of them. They took a trip to the ice cream factory after Ray rejected several plans. Ray didn't want to go at all, but he thought it's for Debra. Debra thought he liked it. They saw one couple in the hotel, happily. Ray bet they hadn't been married yet...Without doubt, fight was coming, and poor Debra cried in the bathroom. When Ray realized Debra's worries, he said "I'm the boring one." At least, they have one thing in common now.

Life is boring most of time, which people live in. I'm the one who always worries about "i'm the boring one." oh yeah, not just thinking, I AM!

Indeed, life is more like water, yeah, the water we drink everyday, not sweet, not salty. It's plain! Sometimes I had juice, coke, sometimes I drink wine, But none of them I can drink everyday except for water. Routin life is such a big challenge for everyone, isn't it?

Wednesday, January 11, 2006

Apple MacBook Pro



Since Apple switched to use intel processor, I have been expecting something new and more powerful coming. After I was salivating overiMac G5, Apple brought its fabulous notebook--MacBook Pro powerd with intel Core Duo. This will be very good choice for Apple fans.

I'm also expecting that Apple will release the new version of mac os for PC users in near future.

See the details in Apple's website here

Thursday, January 05, 2006

love the new and loathe the old

Men like that, so do I (sometimes). Changing layout is just because I couldn't type long during these days, but want to see something new.

I haven't got used to my new appearance here yet, which might take some time for such a stubborn person like me. how do u feel? This makes me thinking of my classmates long time ago. After they knew me as my real name, I tried once to introduce myself with my English name. Nobody took it as me. First impression lasts forever. One of my friends said ur name is so wavy, man, it's like talking about my mood, no wonder. what a name my parents gave to me!

Got to stop here, gee, it hurts.